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About Kat Spiwak

My Commitment

I care deeply about the hopes and desires of each person I work with, and conscientiously develop with each client a plan that addresses their unique circumstances. No issue, fear, or concern is too minor to be given full attention and consideration. I'm committed to the growth and personal success of each client. Working with me to achieve your goals, you will experience the benefits of a relationship with a skilled professional who supports her clients with sensitivity, dedication, and compassion.

The Making of a Dating and Interpersonal Skills Coach

Kat Spiwak, Dating and Interpersonal Skills Coach

Many years of dating could turn almost anyone into an expert, but only if they learn from their mistakes. After years of trial-and-error, I learned what works and what doesn't. Specifically, I learned how to avoid dating traps by spotting problem situations ahead of time, and how to apply the dating skills every single person needs for better results. After seeing the success I was having with my own dating, friends started asking me to tell them my secrets. I realized I could formalize this information and share my knowledge and techniques with other singles who date. Building on my background in coaching, training, and human resources management, I've developed the repertoire of skills and real-life experience needed to help others achieve their very own dating and relationship goals. Dating's meant to be fun, and it is when you know how to do it!

Personal and Professional Attributes: (why I stand out)

  • One of the most experienced and longest-practicing dating coaches in North America
  • 20 years’ experience in counselling & coaching
  • Entire career spent in human services
  • Experienced with use of CBT & mindfulness to help clients change negative thinking patterns and behaviours
  • Specialty with self-esteem & confidence development, assertiveness skills development
  • Emphasis on strengthening verbal and nonverbal communication skills by deconstructing barriers to expression
  • Use of other techniques used for self-awareness and personal development – journalling, visualization, mindfulness, etc.

...and most importantly, in a loving, stable long-term relationship myself!

Working with me, you receive: (extras!)

  • An extensive intake and needs assessment to assess how your behaviours and beliefs may be contributing to your results
  • Personalized Program based on your needs
  • Regular action items and assignments, including handouts and worksheets to help you integrate new skills and knowledge and move you towards your goals

Professional Affiliations (cool organizations I belong to)

  • Member, Human Resources Professionals Association (HRPA)
  • Member, Coachville, USA
  • Member, Toronto Chapter, Coachville


  • Master's in Dating, the real world (that means dating, dating and more dating. LOTS of dating, are you getting that?) Serious relationships and casual relationships. My marriage to an amazing guy who's taught me more about relationships than all my formal training combined.
  • Coaching Training with Master Coach Marion Franklin, 2005-2006
  • CHRM (Human Resources Professional Certification), HRPA 1995
  • Post-Diploma Certificate in Human Resources Management, Seneca College, Toronto 1995
  • Life Skills Coach Certification, George Brown College, Toronto 1994
  • Bachelor of Arts Degree, Major in Psychology, University of Waterloo, Ontario

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