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Dating and Relationship Coaching

Interpersonal Skills Development

Developing Self-Confidence & Assertiveness

Single Life Fulfillment Coaching logo recently featured Katís work on Dating with Resilience: logo
is also a fan!

Their latest profile showcases Katís work and client success stories:

Dating Coach Kat Spiwak - Date Coaching, Dating Advice, Interpersonal Skills Coach, Human Resources Consultant

Welcome to the on-line home of Coach Kateryna Spiwak, Canada's most experienced Dating and Relationship Coach. (the Dating Coach who's in a successful long-term relationship!)

Improve your ability to get dates...
Relate better, socially and romantically...
Learn how to attract the right people...
Expand your social network and make new friends...
End confusion over your dating dilemmas...
Learn to communicate assertively...
Change dysfunctional relationship patterns and dynamics...
Build strong relationship foundations from the start...
Make dating fun!

Dating presents an ideal opportunity to make new friends and meet the love of your life, and I can help you do it more quickly and easily than you ever thought possible. Whether you haven't dated much or not at all, you're starting again after the end of a relationship, or you're dating but not getting the results you want, I can guide you through the various stages and help you avoid the pitfalls of dating and relationship-building.

  • Increase your knowledge and skill with dating
  • Become confident around people of interest
  • Refine your social and interpersonal skills
  • Learn to communicate more effectively
  • Become prepared for starting over
  • Overcome internal obstacles like fear
  • Learn why you date the wrong people and make unsound relationship choices
  • Learn how to change limiting relationship patterns
  • Develop clarity with current relationships and receive support around maintaining or ending them
  • Evaluate relationship compatibility for the long-term
  • Identify & manage your triggers & those of your partner
  • Learn how to proactively deal with relationship issues and conflicts

I've been coaching men and women on interpersonal skills and relationship development for many years. Having pioneered work in this area, I've designed a process that ensures you will develop skill in all the areas essential for creating dynamic romantic relationships. You'll learn how to meet people and build relationships in an authentic way that's true to yourself.

People ask what my clients seek help with. You might be able to relate to what many struggle with:

  • Social anxiety or shyness, and little or no experience with dating
  • Experienced with dating, but challenged by fear of rejection
  • Starting over after the end of a relationship, and not sure how to get back in the game
  • Experienced with dating, but not getting to the next level with the right people
  • Comfortable with dating, but not sure who's right for them
  • Fairly confident and sociable, but intimidated by people they're interested in
  • Repeatedly attracting the wrong people
  • Getting involved with destructive or narcissistic people
  • Determining whether to stay with a current relationship
  • Dating, but not able to move beyond a few dates
  • Not able to open up or connect on a deeper level
  • Not emotionally accessible to people they date
  • Plagued by insecurities, negativity, fear and trust issues
  • Repeatedly getting friend-zoned!

My work isn't about superficial tips, but about personal development & transformation to help you develop clarity, genuine confidence with dating, & life-long relationship & intimacy skills.

Your improved interpersonal skills will also enhance your social relationships in work and community settings. My many successful clients and I can verify that my techniques work! Applying them brought MY wonderful partner into my life, and has brought love to my clients. Believe it or not, dating is fun when you know what you're doing.

Dating coaching helps singles like yourself learn specific skills and strategies for succeeding in all stages of the dating process.

Featured Testimonial

Your advice, insights and wisdom were very helpful to me when getting back into the dating game after my marriage ended.

~ Mark, Waterloo (Re-married in 2006)

You'll learn how to:

  • manage shyness and dating anxiety
  • become clear about your personal and relationship needs
  • find and attract suitable partners
  • create a dynamic first impression
  • build rapport with people you want to date
  • screen dates for long-term compatibility
  • recognize red flags and know when to walk away
  • navigate the stages of dating for building strong relationship foundations
  • evaluate a current relationship and determine whether to continue or walk away
  • proactively manage relationship dynamics for stable, harmonious unions
  • resolve conflicts in healthy ways
  • anticipate and deal with personal and relationship triggers

You'll be well on your way to meeting and connecting with the partner you dream about.

With my help - on-line, by phone, or in person - clients integrate the strategies, techniques and confidence they need to meaningfully engage and communicate with compatible people. Dating consists of a set of skills that can be learned like any other.

What does it take to get better results
from your dating efforts?

Self-knowledge, self-assurance, skills,
strategies, and support

All of these become yours through our
personal coaching relationship.

My extensive experience in counselling, Life Skills coaching, and human resources management created a fundamental belief: with some guidance and support, everyone has the ability to achieve things they never thought possible.

My clients include people of all ages, occupations and cultural backgrounds, and residents of many countries. My client base has included teachers, police officers, engineers, architects, IT professionals, doctors, dentists, nurses & health services personnel, lawyers, retail staff, students, new grads, auto workers, office admin. staff, counsellors, marketing and finance professionals, business and life coaches, writers, HR practitioners, accountants, entrepreneurs and many others. They've made huge gains in their lives through coaching, many of them now married or in long-term relationships. I've also coached a psychic, because even psychics don't know where and when they're going to find love!

It's time to call a coach when you're stuck or frustrated and you want different results. Reading articles and speaking with friends often help, but working one-on-one with a perceptive, objective coach provides the personal feedback that makes all the difference.

Start enjoying the relationships you were meant to have!

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin

Don't Leave Love to Chance -

Give Cupid Some Help and Make It Happen!

Get Clarity, Confidence, and Results

Get the Most Out of Your Dating Life!

Contact me now to start fresh and find love!

Local and international sessions offered in person, by phone, and by Zoom


(Toronto, Canada)

* All initial consultations are held by phone *

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